We love jokes, puns, quips, the occasional tomfoolery, some shenanigans, and especially random analogies that make us chortle. But one thing that is no laughing matter and we will never compromise on is animal safety – and pet happiness. (All right, two things.) If you are considering adopting or buying a pet, we are all about taking that conversation seriously and helping you come to a decision that is not only best for you and your family but also for that potential pet you’ve had on your mind. Welcoming a pet is an important decision, one that should be made with a combo of your head and your heart. There are many – and completely valid – reasons that you should not get a pet. And there are other reasons that you should! The main point? Do the work before you decide.

Is a Pet Right for You?

Pets make our lives better. It’s science. Studies show that interacting with animals decreases cortisol levels (that’s a stress hormone, folks) and lowers blood pressure. It also reduces loneliness, boosts mood naturally, and increases feelings of social support and connection. All of this can add up to a more full, rich, satisfying, loving life. For you and for them. But… pets need time, exercise, space, attention, love, and, let’s face it, lotsa lettuce and cabbage (did you know that was slang for “money”? Pepper that into daily conversation going forward). Is the time right for you to introduce Fido or Garfield to your family? Dogs live an average of 10-13 years, and cats live an average of 12-18. Hopefully, your pal is around for a long time… but this also means you have to make sure that a pet makes sense for your future plans.

The Questions To Ask

We love that you want a pet to love. That’s a beautiful thing, but a pet is not a purchase, it’s a commitment. Take a minute, and answer honestly – for you and the animal:

1. Do you really want a puppy or kitten?

When people think about new pets they are imagining the sweet, adorable little faces of kittens and puppies, who are absolutely designed for maximum cuteness. Do you know what else they were designed for? Maximum work. Be mindful of the time and patience that younger animals need. Think house training, socializing, manners, commands, and skills like walking on a leash. They need you to teach them everything (especially pups). You’re busy? Do you think you’ll get irritated when your favorite shoes wind up as chew toys? You can’t physically meet the demands of an energetic young animal? Guess what? That is OK. You are not a monster. In fact, you are doing the right thing by not welcoming a pup or kitty if this is your reality. Would an adult pet make more sense? (To be honest, many of them think they are still puppies/kittens… they just do it slower and with lots more naps.) The littlest ones are a BIG commitment!

2. How active are you?

If your everyday life means intense hikes and long runs and you want a buddy who can keep up, a laidback English Bulldog may not be your best bet! Consider a high-energy breed, like a Border Collie, Husky, or Vizsla. Similar to meeting new people, there are certain breeds that you may not be a great match for. On the other hand, if you are more likely to spend your free time catching up on your favorite show or reading a good book, you may want a cuddle buddy. That Husky will go stir-crazy on the couch. Consider a Pug, Basset Hound, or a good ol’ Chihuahua. Remember, senior cats and dogs can also make great snuggle companions.

3. How much time do you (or other household members) have to spend with a pet?

If your potential new pal is going to be home for long stretches of the day alone, this may not be the right time in your life to welcome a new pet. If you really, really, really have your heart set on making it work, low-energy and/or senior pets may be a better fit for this type of living situation. You can also look into daycare or dog-walking services, which leads us to our next tough question.

4. Will a New Pet Fit Into Your Budget?

Love ‘em, but pets are not cheap. Here’s a list of things you’d better be prepared to spend some extra lettuce on:

Vet bills (including check-ups, vaccinations, spay/neuter surgeries, emergency medical appointments, and medicines).
Flea and tick treatments
Beds
Toys
Collars & Leashes
Litter boxes and litter
Crates & grates
Food (and treats, OF COURSE)
The cost of purchasing/adopting
Kennel services if you go on vacay and daycare or dog walkers if they’ll be home solo for long periods of time

Vet bills can be wildly difficult to predict. Your dog decides it’s a good idea to go ahead and eat that squeaky toy. You might be looking at over $1000 for an examination and x-rays at an emergency vet. If he needs surgery… prepare to pay out another $2000 – $10,000. With that in mind, pet insurance may be a good call. You need to also consider the breed you want. For example, German Shepherds are vulnerable to hip dysplasia. Your pet may need a femoral head ostectomy ($1200 – $2500) or a total hip replacement ($3500 – $7000). Again, consider looking into pet insurance options (before you need it) or at least laying aside regular amounts in your budget to cover unforeseeable (or foreseeable) expenses. Are they worth the money? OBVIOUSLY. But that’s not the question here, the real question is “Can you afford it?” Even if it’s a hard question to ask, for both you and the animal’s sake, it needs to have an honest answer.

5. Who’s the Fam?

Who are the people in your family? Do you expect this to change (e.g. do you plan on having a child)? Will anyone else help with the care of the pet – after the novelty wears off and they discover they have to carry poop bags with them… everywhere? It might be a good idea to pet sit or foster before adopting to see how a pet fits in with your lifestyle, your family, and your rhythms.

6. What’s Your Space Situation?

Your casa will be their casa, so space considerations are important before you begin the adoption process. How much room do you have for a pet? Will they be sharing the space with other pets? If you want a dog, do you have a backyard? Is it fenced? A lawn isn’t a strict necessity, of course, but if you live in a high-rise, remember the reality of frequent pee breaks or pee pads. If you enjoy a rental, check in on pet permissions: Cats but not dogs? Dogs – but not some dogs? Are there any breed restrictions? Be realistic about choosing a pet that will enjoy your space as much as you do! A cattle dog might go stir-crazy in a small apartment, but a senior cat could thrive in one. Be sure to consider the pet’s comfort, too.

Are You Thinking More No than Yes?

We know that’s hard. The difference between wanting a pet and being able to welcome one is bigger than we’d like. Sometimes, it’s just not the right time in your life to get a pet. This can be a really tough decision to sit with for pet lovers. Please remember that sometimes saying “No,” is the best move for you – and for the animal. And please remember that there are other ways you can help support animals in your community:

Volunteer at an animal shelter. Some of the nicest two- and four-legged folks you’ll ever meet.
Foster. Many shelter animals require fostering before they find their forever homes – this is the perfect opportunity for you to find out if you’re ready to welcome a new pet into your life without the actual long-term commitment. Check with your local shelter on how to apply to become a foster candidate.
Put your money where your mouth is. Donate to your local shelter and/or DocuPet’s Safe&Happy fund. They will put these funds to work in your community.
Help out. Know a single parent who could use a hand? A senior who can’t get out as much as they want to? Offer to take their dogs for a walk. Someone’s going away? Maybe you can make sure their cat is fed and happy. Help them out, and get your fill of pet time.
Encourage your pet-owning friends and family to license their dogs and cats. This is a small step that makes a big impact. Not only does it help protect their pets, but it also helps keep the entire animal community safer.

You Can Love Pets – Even If It’s Not the Time for You

Sometimes, not welcoming a pet is the best decision for the pet and yourself. There are other ways to be supportive – and get your cuddle time in. However, if it is the right decision, visit your local animal shelter, talk to experts and owners of breeds in which you are interested, and stock up on some toys and treats! Get ready: Owning a pet is a big job… with even bigger rewards.